I’m 24m and think that dating is stupid and performative asf. But unfortunately, I need to play the game if i want anything beyond a platonic relationship with a woman.
So how do you flirt as a man and avoid giving off friend vibes around women who you date? I’m not a witty person so I cannot come up with jokes on the fly.
I’m honestly surprised at how many young men have gfs, like are y’all just very witty because I cannot come up with flirty jokes or comments to save my life.
I just genuinely wanna get to know a woman for who she and share a connection, but it seems like men that do this are supposedly giving off “friend vibes”.
I’m genuinely surprised with how many men go along with this whole dating system and never question how dumb it is lol
So how do i play this dumb dating game and actually build a romantic connection with a woman without giving off friend vibes?
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